Thought for the day...

Do not make anyone responsible for reading your mind...but you.
 Day 213
365 (+31) Daily Necessities: A LifeBook for Relationship Success by Pamela Brewer Available at www.amazon.com

 

Gifts To Yourself

GIFTS TO YOU! 

by Pamela Brewer, MSW, PhD., LCSW-C

 

  • TYPE AT LEAST ONE THING THAT YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF ON A PIECE OF PAPER - FRAME IT - AND HANG IT IN YOUR HOME AND OFFICE.  KEEP IT AS A REMINDER OF WHAT'S RIGHT FOR YOU.

 

  • INVITE ONE NEW PERSON INTO YOUR LIFE - EVEN IF FOR A GLASS OF JUICE AT A JUICE BAR.

 

  • PLAN YOUR FRIVOLOUS, SILLY ENJOYABLE TIME. JUST FOR YOU!

 

  • MAKE THE CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE WHOM YOU VALUE.

 

  • MAKE CONSCIOUS TIME TO SAY "NO" TO PEOPLE WHO DO NOT VALUE YOU.

 

  • TOSS ALL THOSE MAGAZINES AND PAPERS YOU'VE "BEEN MEANING TO GET TO" FOR THREE MONTHS OR MORE.

 

  • BE DARING! WEAR AN ACCESSORY OR COLOR YOU WOULD "NEVER WEAR"!

 

  • THINK OF YOUR MOTTO - YOUR GUIDELINE FOR THE YEAR ... IDENTIFY A GIFT THAT WILL SYMBOLIZE YOUR MOTTO - PREFERABLY SOMETHING YOU CAN WEAR... SPEND YOUR YEAR WEARING GIFTS FOR YOU.

 

  • TAKE A CLASS - LEARN SOMETHING NEW AND FUN. GIVE YOURSELF THE GIFT OF FUN AND NEW LEARNING FOR THE NEW YEAR.

 

  • KNOW THAT YOUR PAST DOES NOT HAVE TO PREDICT YOUR FUTURE UNLESS YOU WANT IT TO...